The advice to "start with a story" is usually given as a rhetorical trick. It is actually a cognitive one.
What the story does
An abstraction with nothing to attach to slides off. If I open with the afternoon I spent chasing a route that kept reverting to the home page, everyone in the room now has a concrete instance in mind, and the ten minutes about hydration mismatches land on something. Without it I am describing a category to people who have no member of it.
Rules I try to follow
- The story must be the actual subject, not a warm-up. An anecdote about airport security followed by a talk on caching wastes everyone’s first two minutes.
- Include the part where I was wrong. It is the most useful content and the part audiences remember, because it is the only part they cannot get from documentation.
- Keep it under ninety seconds. It is a doorway, not a room.
- Return to it at the end. A talk that closes by resolving its opening feels finished in a way a summary slide never does.
The hakawati knew this too: you do not begin with the principle. You begin with a man, a night, and a problem, and the principle arrives on its own.
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Daan Visser
July 23, 2026Include the part where you were wrong. Every talk I remember years later did this and every one I forgot did not.
Muhammed Senussi
AuthorJuly 23, 2026It is also the hardest advice to follow, because a conference stage feels like a place to demonstrate competence. The irony is that the mistake is what makes the competence credible.